The morning after...
On this day after the Presidential election I have spent the
morning reading an endless number of ranting, raving, complaining, vicious,
crying, boasting and gloating facebook posts from friends venting after the election.
Admittedly, I am in a state of shock with feelings of anger,
disappointment, and dismay bordering on despair. So many things are going through my head that
I have resisted the temptation to let it all hang out and write an immediate
post dumping all my feelings into a passionate diatribe. I have decided not to do that. Rather, I will let it all sink in and when I
think I have calmed myself down enough, I will attempt to pull all my thoughts
and feelings together and then write a blog about it.
I would like to comment on one thing, however: One of the threads running through the posts
I’ve read this morning is the threat to, or an admission of, “unfriending”
because of disagreements over political positions or beliefs. There are many bad things about social
media—you know them all, bullying, hate, threats, lies and on and on. But, on the plus side, social media has
offered a means of instant communication between people that never existed
before. It provides a way for the
immediate exchange of ideas whether you agree with those ideas or not.
Obviously, those of you have read my facebook posts and
blogs know I have been clear and outspoken about my political leanings and
opinions during the campaign. There have
been many heated exchanges between me and friends ranging from mildly nasty to
somewhat mean to downright vicious. I have never unfriended anyone regardless
of how unpleasant an exchange may have been and I never will. Cutting off a dialogue, no matter how heated
or unpleasant, does not resolve anything.
Hopefully that idea will prevail after Trump takes
office. During the Obama years, the
Republicans and Democrats had very little dialogue. The danger now is that with the Republicans
wielding total control of the Presidency and Congress, there will be no
dialogue at all.